Goodness! I have decided I am officially NOT a very good blogger! I can't believe how fast time goes by especially when I realize each month how little I've written on here! So since the kiddos are sleeping and I have nothing extremely pressing to do at this moment in time, I think I'll write one of my rambling posts about nothing in specific but about everything all at the same time! Sorry in advance for how long and all over this might go! Just remember, it's called catch up from almost a month of not writing on here!
First of all, I can hardly believe that yesterday marked the first month since my precious little nephew Makaio went to be with Jesus... I don't know why it still seems like a dream at times. I have gone on here different times wanting to write about my thoughts and feelings especially on the hard days, but I haven't kept anything or posted anything, as you know. All in all, I am doing okay although it is still hard to see my sister and her husband and to think about the little one who is missing who should have been there each time they come over and each time we go visit them! Two days ago, on Monday, my sisters and mom came over to spend the day scrapbooking sweet Makai's pictures. It was such a wonderful day to hang out, talk together, cry together, and just remember together. I'm glad that we were able to get pictures of him and I'm also glad that we were able to have that time to work on some books for each of us to have. I want to continually remind Daniel and Lydia about their little cousin who they were never able to meet, and having this little book will be a great way for them to be able to remember him! Lelia and Wayne overall have been doing pretty good lately, although they definitely have their really hard days from time to time. Lelia just got a job at Applebees which she is training for right now... Praying that that will be a place where she enjoys working but that at the same time we all hope and pray that they will be blessed with another child not to far into the future so she can stay home and be the kind of mom that she so wants to be! We have a March for Babies 5 mile walk planned on April 28th which we are all excited for! We are making some "Team Makaio" t-shirts with a picture of his cute little feet and it will be such a great time for all the family and lots of our friends to get together and walk in memory of him! Also, I wanted to share a couple of pictures of him! Here are two that the professional photographer from "Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep" took shortly after his birth... Wasn't he such a cute little boy?! I love him so much!
Today is my little girl's 7 month birthday which is so crazy to believe! It's hard to believe she has already been here for over half a year - it has gone by so fast! She will be going in for her 6 month appointment (I know... we are way late!) in a few weeks so it will be good to FINALLY see how much she weighs and how tall she is again! I have not been very good at keeping up with those appointments this time around... She is still sleeping great, although, I've been trying to figure out her naps lately as she is definitely able to stay up longer in between naps than she was able to before and I still haven't figured out exactly how long. :o) She usually takes two one-hour naps in the morning and late afternoon and usually a one and a half to two hour nap in the early afternoon while Daniel naps which is nice! She has woken up at night a few times this month which is very unusual for her, but I think she has just been really hungry since she still hasn't been the greatest at eating her baby foods! :o( Her favorite foods so far have been pears and carrots, so I just need to make more of that for her to eat because squash, apricots/apples, and some of the other things we have tried are definitely not on her top 5 list! :o) She has two cute little bottom teeth, and I'm guessing her top ones will be coming in at some point of time, but I haven't noticed them yet! She still loves to sit and play but has also enjoyed "wheeling" around backwards in the bouncer/wheeley thing we have. She LOVES playing with Daniel's legos and dump truck and tools - lol - and also enjoys it when I read books to her and Daniel on the floor. :o) We have been trying to put her on her hands and knees from time to time but she won't stay up on them for long and doesn't really push herself up on them much at all! So, not sure how much longer before she'll be crawling... We'll see if she beats Daniel's 9 months or maybe she'll take longer! Either way we are good because although I know it'll be so much fun to watch her explore around and follow her big brother everywhere, it's also nice not to have to start the big-time baby proofing again yet! Lydia seriously has some of the best expressions and smiles I've ever seen on a baby girl! :o) She is very expressive... it's going to be so much fun to see those grow with her as she grows! She has such cute little dimples when she smiles, too, and I love cuddling with her and making her laugh when we tickle her! She doesn't "talk" as much as Daniel did when he was that age, I don't think, but she does still scream/shrill from time to time to just make sure we know she's there! Gosh, I love her so much! She is such a wonderful bundle of joy and I'm SO excited to see her grow and learn even more new things this next month!
Tomorrow night is Scott's first night back to softball this year! We had a practice night last week and it was so much fun to get back to softball even for me who doesn't play! Lol. I love taking the kids, though, and even though I can only make their 6 and 7 pm games because of the kids' bedtime (around 8 pm) I know it'll be fun watching those games this season and the next two seasons! We have a much different team this year because several people couldn't play this spring who usually do, but that has made it fun because it'll be nice to hang out and see some of these others more often! Daniel is so funny because he LOVES to pretend to play softball all the time! He makes almost anything a bat and has us throw balls at him as he tries to hit them with his bat! When we went to the field for practice last week he stood right there with everyone else holding one of the softballs. He SO wanted to join in the game! At least there is a park nearby because that will be a main way of getting him away from the fields during the games I'm thinking... He LOVES parks!
Speaking of parks... (See... my rambling is awesome!) Daniel has been having SO much fun playing at parks this spring! It's fun for me too because I finally don't have to climb up after him everywhere like last year! I still watch him pretty closely for the most part because he scares me to death at times when he gets up really high next to the drop-offs or when he decides to climb up bars or something... I know, I know... I know that he is a boy so I have been trying to let him do crazy, daredevil stuff from time to time, but sometimes it is still pretty hard for me to not be overly protective! ;o) He fell off something the other day and got a bloody nose which was so sad to see, but it was funny because he didn't even realize it and didn't cry much at all even as his nose was dripping blood! He LOVES to go down slides now, which is so funny to watch because he likes to sit and go down on his tummy over and over! At home he goes down on his tummy head down much of the time... He is so funny when he lands in a heap at the bottom of the slide on his head, laughs, stands up and does it all over again! Scott taught him how to climb up one of the climbing walls at a park the other day and now he LOVES climbing those! He did it over and over again and I was very impressed because he figured out which foot to go where and where to put his hands on the hand-holds. I love my little guy! He is so smart and makes me so happy that I'm his mommy! :o)
Scott has been working on our backyard a lot lately (hoping to finish this weekend...) shoveling up all the old rocks/mulch all around our yard and laying down new weed cover and new mulch! We have a small area done so far and it looks SO awesome! I'm super excited to get the rest of the yard done because the dark mulch makes it look so much nicer out there! Once our sprinkler system is turned on Scott is also going to re-seed some of our grass so once all that is done it'll be so nice to spend our evenings out there this summer! I just need to figure out what we are planting in our garden and starting getting all that planned out... For some reason my excitement about doing a garden last year is not here this year so I have really been putting it off! :o(
Scott is gone next week again with work... I'm getting better with dealing with kiddos and figuring out a good routine when he is gone since it's been happening every month lately, but it's still so hard and sad not to have him here! :o( I always like to have something big to focus on during the week and get accomplished, so this next week it'll be getting Daniel's 2nd birthday party all planned out and invites made! All I have done so far is decide that the theme will be construction/building and I have lots of ideas for decorations/food/activities to look through and narrow down! I'm super excited for it! I know he will have a great time and I hope lots of his friends are able to come!! :o)
Well, Lydia just woke up so I should go ahead and send this! I hope everyone has a great week and hopefully it won't take me forever long to write on here again!